Showing posts with label Memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memories. Show all posts

Thursday, 18 August 2011

Let’s not remain it I for India, Make it “We” for India.

I for India, India, our country. But why not I for Italy? How can we forget an Italian lady who has left her own country to eat-up ours and who has given a successor to the most corrupt and unfortunately most reputed political family of India?
H for heritage of thousand years old temples, buildings, and literature of India. But why not H for Hatred? Hate for old, hungry, handicapped, illiterate, underprivileged and poor people. And, for other religions too?
G for Glory. The brilliance, splendour, and grandeur of our history. But why not G for Godhra? As it also has a history associated with thousands of killings and arrests, and mass destruction of trust between Hindus and Muslims.
F for Freedom. But why not F for Fun, Fashion, or Facebook? Because we all spent Independence Day just as an extended weekend sitting in comfort of our homes doing status updates, posting pictures of Tricolour to show our patriotism or enjoying Independence Day sale offers or watching TV?
E for Election of an efficient Government which is expected to develop the nation. But why not E for Encroachment, not only on lands but also on people’s beliefs and faiths to make them terrorists, to make them hate and divide mother India?
D for Duty towards nation, devotion for our culture and values. But why not D for Deceit? Deceit with country and its citizens in the form of scams and scandals?
C for Constitutional rights. Do we remember even more than 2 or 3 of them? Then why don’t we follow C for Corruption? Because bribe, threats, dishonesty, have been more familiar terms.
B for Bravery of our soldiers. B for Brilliance of our scientists, doctors and engineers. But let’s learn B for Brain Drain; which is happening from more than last 15 years and we feel proud to share that our brother or sister has got a job abroad.
A for Anna Hazare. Padma Bhushan Anna Hazare, who has developed a village Ralegan Siddhi into India’s richest village, a man in his seventies, is now fighting to bring Jan Lokpal Bill against corruption. The amount of change it can bring is already evident by the huge support from all over the nation and at the same time huge opposition from all political parties.
It’s high time we have to stand up for the Nation. I request here to make the fullest of this opportunity for the betterment of our country. If it’s gone; our freedom is of no use.
I want to share an incident of 15th August 2007, first Independence Day after joining TCS; my father called up in the morning and asked, “How was the flag hoisting ceremony in your office?” “Papa there is just a holiday; we don’t hoist flag here.” I answered rapidly, but could not answer his next question, “You could have gone to some nearby school or college to attend that?”
Being the principal of a college my grandfather used to hoist flag for so many years; my father also attends it every year in his college. Then how could I break the ritual? Why don’t private companies make it compulsory to attend the ceremony otherwise the employee will be fired as they do in government offices?
Friends, we all have our kitty full of excuses for being neutral against corruption. “What this country has given me?” tops the list of them. Please think, “Have we ever given anything to this country?” And we will get the answer.
Let’s not remain it I for India, Make it “We” for India.

Friday, 12 August 2011

Me, as a 'Libran'.....

Friends….Do you know me?
What is my name?
My name is Rimzim Anand.
What is my Date of Birth? Come on atleast my facebook friends should know it…?
No..? OK…. J Its 22nd October….. mmm…. year is a well kept secret, so let it be.

It concludes that I am a Libran. I read somewhere that “Librans are great lovers of beauty, grace and harmony. They strive for justice and are always weighing all sides of problem.” Lets see how….

Librans can talk your ear off, yet they are wonderfully flattering good listeners when you need an audience. Did I say Talkative? Well… I am a bit shy and talk only when I am happy, only when I am hurt, only when I am puzzled, only when I am excited… and definitely when I am pulling someone’s leg. I love to describe things with a “personal touch”. When it comes to listening I am sometimes like a confession box where you can dump your deepest secrets and be assured that they will never come out because Librans are super trustworthy and honest.

Though Grey color is the symbol of disruption and uneasiness; and I personally don’t like this color but Librans have a surplus amount of grey matter when it comes to intelligence. Librans have an amazing power of analysis for solving serious problems, and to concentrate on deep subjects. Be it any subject, give them a slightest possibility to debate and they will show their wits. For me, experimentation and innovation must be integral in my life and ways; once lost, I don’t find it attractive anymore.

Librans are peacemakers. They have the ability to smooth everyone’s ruffled feathers around. Librans are good natured and pleasant. A calm smile is the signature expression of most of the Librans. Librans hate to be rude, show-offs, and impatient. They never behave unjustified. For me, if I am happy, others should get an ample share of it; but if I am low, there is no fault of them to suffer whatever they are not intended for.

The Libra bird needs lots of fine feathers for her luxurious nest. A Libran is a lover of all that's good and clean and lovely. My room, wardrobe and workspace at NMX show my interest. Librans love good food, colors, soft light, smooth music, interesting conversation, energetic and expressive people (the reason I am here in toastmasters club). Being a lady, it has extended to matching eyeliners and lip glosses and more than three dozen nail paints arranged neatly according to their shades. No matter how bad or busy the day is, I never forget to flaunt a matching watch from among nearly a dozen of them. Recently bought my 10th one…But…Librans are never show-offs J
Similar to most Librans, the smell of a book is the scent of calmness for me. Love for nature and animals, photography, travelling, handicrafts, cooking, etc. is an exhaustive list of my stress busters and interests that keep me multitasking.

When it comes to work, Librans strike a perfect balance by being equally hard working and lazy. For days, weeks or months, Librans can be too busy to play. Suddenly, they'll plop down into a chair doing nothing, for may be a long time and again indulge in work with a great vigor, keeping a miraculous balance. It annoy me very much when I see a deadline is reaching and still I am not able to convince myself to work; but at the end everything falls into place and I promise to myself to not repeat it again. But that day is yet to come… J

Libran can weep with overflowing sentiments, turns sharply sarcastic, and then be as bright and cheerful as the first robin in spring. Yes…though they seem very calm and composed but a balancing scale in their mind keeps on struggling for equilibrium to make every thing around “perfect”. The qualities of balanced, harmonious judgment, makes a Libran excellent strategist. Impatience is one quality most Librans can't stand. Librans need harmony everywhere the reason behind; they can not work or live alone.

I feel proud that I am “Justifying” these lovely qualities. Though sometimes I feel that my friends and family are finding me a bit unpredictable but it’s something about that balancing scale I can’t help. J

Think you can, think you can't; either way you'll be right.

Think you can, think you can't; either way you'll be right.  To make it work I have four forces which drive my life: compassion, an urge to survive, unconditional love, and self-belief. Each of them has some dear one associated with it.

First person is my grand-father. He has started his career as a primary school teacher and has retired as the principal of a post graduate college and also the vice-chancellor for sometime. Throughout his life he outlived an example of being compassionate, down-to-earth and realistic. His humbleness and simplicity has always motivated me to learn from him, to be like him. He was always encouraging and used to be very proud whenever I achieved something. Though he is not with me today; but the sight of his elated smile and overjoyed eyes reflecting a pure heart is still fresh in my memories.

Second person is my mother, she is the strength of my life. She has always instilled in me an urge to survive. She has never let me break-down in front of circumstances. I believe that I can never fail until my mother accepts that I am failed. Since childhood, I have a habit to share each and every incident of the day with her; and even today my day do not complete until I talk to her. So, next time when you see me talking over phone, don’t make wild guesses. J

And, now it’s time to make a confession that I am in love since childhood. The love is both sided, grows each day yet purely unconditional. I can not even imagine myself without him. The bonding can not be expressed in words. I just love everything about him. No more wild guesses my friends; He is my Pattu. A lovely parrot with full on attitude. I can spend a whole day talking to him and watching him playing. Be it my cell-phone, laptop, facebook account; his photos are everywhere.

The fourth force driving me is self-belief. I will win is my belief. I love and accept myself the way I am. I believe that a person can achieve everything; unless he comes out from his/her comfort zone. Life is not a fantasy and to deal with it we have to re-energise time to time. For me it’s a long list of hobbies ranging from Photography, cooking, crafts, reading, collecting coins, cosmetics and watches. The busier me is the happier me. I strive to be cheerful and presentable whatever the situation is. Because I know that Think you can, think you can't; either way you'll be right. I surely can. Why not…